Don’t compete with others.
Compete with yourself.
Seek to improve yourself each hour, each day, each month, each year.. With Allah’s Help.
If you could not control your anger one day,try your best to control it a little more the next day.
If you could not stop yourself from listening to a song or watching a movie one day, try and reduce the time the next few days and stop watching eventually.
Be better each hour, day,month, year. Better than what you were the hour, day,month or year before.